Final Reflections on our Trip

There is so much being written today about the importance of connection for our health and wellbeing. This trip has given me a chance to think about my dad who was a "consumate connector."



When he was about 81, he even took a train trip by himself from Minneapolis, to Chicago, to Washington D.C., to New York City, and finally to Providence, R.I. - for the sole purpose of reconnecting with people who had been important to him in his life.

I've reached the age where I can now more fully appreciate the legacy my dad passed on about how meaningful it can be to connect with someone new or reconnect with someone from your past. 





When we left for Norway, we had no idea we'd actually be able to meet with some of Greg's relatives. But the chance to sit down and have conversations with both Ola and Kjell was a great experience!



And, to have the chance to reconnect after all these years with Siru, 53 years after she lived with our family, was amazing. It was wonderful to remember what we felt like at 17 and 18 as well as share all the ways we have grown and changed over our lifetimes.

So, I've come away from this trip inspired to continue to prioritze staying in touch with our friends as well as to reach out and reconnect with old friends we might have not have seen for a long time. 

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